When you try to make eye contact and you look at the face of a man or women and you note that they have a Tight lipped expression,lips tightly pressed against each other,it can mean that they are just tense or nervous.
Tight lipped mouth is generally interpreted as a negative expression and is a sign of disinterest towards the person of opposite sex in the immediate vicinity.But the fact can be just that the tight lipped person is feeling a sexual tension with the other person and is feeling tense and nervous,which are not a bad thing to feel.If you are getting a Tight lipped expression or a tight lipped smile one of the things you can do is to try to deescalate the tension and try to build comfort with the other person.You can try to calm them by looking away briefly and give them some space and Time and help them to open up to you.
Tense lips may look similar to a Tight lipped expression but the main difference is that the lips are pulled-in in a closed mouth position.Technically when a person has tense lips they retract the lips slightly in so that part of lips come between the upper and lower teeth.Tense lipped facial expression mean that the person is mad or upset at someone or something. Generally Tense lipped expression is accompanied by a raised eyebrow expression.
Very few eye cues are as straight forward to interpret as Rolling eyes.Even the dictionary gives a clear cut meaning for ‘rolling eyes’.
Rolling Eyes-to move your eyes around in a circle because someone has said or done something stupid or strange
Now that we have clearly illustrated how a eye rolling will look like with the help of the beautiful model in the above picture and what ‘Rolling eyes’ mean with the dictionary meaning we can move to the other aspects of what ‘eye rolling’ means to the speaker and what it does to the people in the receiving end of it.
Though Teens are the obvious heavy users of the eye rolling gesture many adults also display this behavior though they subtly hide it or stop it in the middle. Both men and women roll their eyes when they want to belittle the speaker for something they said or did.When someone rolls their eyes at you they are doing it as if they are telling their imaginary audience “look at this guy!He is so annoying and frustrating to talk to.”
Since eye rolling is considered as a direct aggressive gesture and almost all people understand what it really means people generally get mad when they are at the receiving end of this gesture.They may also want to know the ways to respond or comebacks when someone rolls their eyes at them.Let’s analyze the scenario from everyone’s perspective.
Firstly,when someone rolls their eyes at you,you should try to view why they are doing it from their shoes.In defense of the eye roller,they are choosing to say that ‘your are dumb’ non-verbally instead of directly saying it verbally and that itself means that they are showing some consideration to the other person.Sometimes the eye roller may not be in a dominant position to say ‘you are dumb’ and hence expresses it non-verbally.An example may be a store Girl Rolling her eyes at the middle aged man trying to hold on to a personal conversation with her.It will be unfair if we were to tell you should not roll your eyes at your customer.She has to have a way to express herself to let some of her steam and stress out of her,Right?
Now let’s look at the feelings of the person at the receiving end of the Eye roll.Some people go so mad at this gesture that they have openly expressed their urge to punch in the eye of the eye roller.Some people even call out “Did you just roll your eyes at me?” which just induces more eye rolling in return or the answer “What are you talking about” from the eye roller.
Personally i would recommend to ignore the eye rollers and get on with your life.Ask yourself why the eye rolling is making you upset or angry?Try to find the answer and do something to rectify it.However if you insist on a way to respond or to do a comeback i would recommend the following.
Ask them in the most serious way you possibly can “Did something i said bothered or annoyed you because i noticed it in the way you rolled your eyes.Can you help me to correct myself by verbally stating your situation?”. This is the better verbal approach without escalating the situation further.
Another way is to acknowledge their eye roll and let them know you received their gesture well.Let’s say you are talking to a Teenager and you get the ‘Eye Roll’ you stop what you were saying and tell them “Okay…I got it.You are not in a good mood now.
Imagine a person,preferably a woman,sitting with both hands pressed together at palms wedged between the legs around the thighs.Can you see her slightly leaning forward and presenting a good view of their upward body? So 90% of people who try to guess her state of mind and the emotions she is going through at the moment will say that she is attracted to someone and she is displaying seductive body language cues.My two cents is that we cannot immediately come to the conclusion that the person is attracted to someone she is listening to,just based on this standalone gesture alone but it may be true if it is accompanied by other positive signals like dilated pupils and engorged lips and a sly smile and thousand other things that may indicate interest.
You know you are thinking that a picture is worth a thousand ways and we can just post a picture of a Girl sitting with her hands wedged between her thighs and save the thousand words describing the pose.
So this is the sitting position i am talking about.If only the girl in the picture had kept both her feet together in line it would have been a better match for our post. But just imagine that her front leg is also in line with the other leg and her hand position is exactly as it is now.
I wanted to know what my friends thought about this posture and i showed them a few picture and asked for their interpretation of this body language of a girl sitting with hands wedged between her thighs.The following are some of the interesting interpretations or meanings they came up with.
1.She is feeling cold and placed her hands between thighs to feel warm.
2.She has the urge to go to the Restroom and she is holding it back because she is in the middle of a conversation.
3.She is expecting something to happen or waiting for someone and she is waiting anxiously or impatiently.
4.She is nervous about something and she is displaying pacifying behavior and trying to keep her comfortable in a uncomfortable situation.
5.She is trying to hide something and she is restricting her hands between her thighs since she unconsciously fears that her hands will some movements that will betray her.
6.She is relaxed and is not Self-consciousness and is just enjoying herself.(This personally makes a lot of sense to me and is my Pick too.)
Picture her raising her shoulders almost such that it touches her ears on either side of her head.Seen many poses of women doing this pose in many music videos to show that the actor is relaxed happy and enjoying the environment she is in.It is almost like they are locking in the good feelings they are having at the moment by locking their hands in between their legs.
So what do you think?What makes you more sense to you?Please Comment with your experience with someone sitting in this particular pose.